I'm sure that all of us (or most of us) have felt ugly or fat before.
Felt like because of that, we aren't good enough. That you have to have flawless skin, perfect features and body to mean something. Recognize that little voice in your head- the one that tells you:
you aren't beautiful ?
But wait. Wait just a minute. Do you believe in Jesus? Do you believe in Him? It matters what He sees, not what the world says is beautiful. If you believe in Him, then stop that. Stop telling yourself that. I'm trying to stop as well.
Who knows what pretty or beautiful really is, anyway? We just go by the standards set for girls and woman these days, not really stopping to think that, hey, I might actually not be below beautiful- I am actually gorgeous, because I was fearfully and wonderfully made, in God's image.
You have a gift if you often remember to not set your thinking priorities in your head to say that you need to be more beautiful, if you know truly that God loves you and it doesn't matter what the world thinks as long as He is with you.
And we should know what real beauty is. The kind of beauty that matters to Jesus. It's in the Bible.
Proverbs 31:30
Charm is deceptive, and beauty fleeting, but a woman who fears the LORD is to be praised.
We should devote our lives to Him, and always fear Him, but love Him with our whole heart. There's this line that you might have heard from one of Toby Mac's songs: I don't wanna gain the whole world, and lose my soul... (I think that's in the Bible as well). Anyway, part of what I'm trying to say is in that line.
1 Peter 3:3-4
Do not let your adorning be external- the braiding of hair and the putting on of gold jewelry, or the clothing you wear - but let your adorning be the hidden person of the heart with imperishable beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which in God's sight is very precious.
PEOPLE. Wouldn't it be absolutely beautiful and amazing to have a imperishable beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit? Oh wow. I really want to be like that. And I have to say, girls who are like that are the girls everyone wants to be around. I love the people I've met who imitate that exact thing that is precious in God's sight. They're so beautiful. They make me really want to be more like them.
There's another place in the Bible, in Psalms I think, that says: I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made; your works are wonderful, I know that full well.
That means you're wonderful. You are a work of His. He made you.
I am not trying to say you should stop trying to dress nicely, or never diet once in a while if you feel like it. Of course, you can do those things. But I think it is important to do your best to be what is pleasing in God's eyes as well. Let this world know you by His love.
Don't beat yourself down, and tell yourself that you aren't beautiful. Even before you were born He knew what you would look like. He has a plan for you and He loves you.
You know what's beautiful? Read the first word of this sentence again.